I still haven't figured it out. But I've clawed and fought my way into being the dad my girls deserve, and this is everything I've learned in the trenches.
Five years ago, if my daughters described the man I actually was when no one was watching, it would have gutted me. I wasn't that dad. I had to become him. Brick by brick. Uncomfortable conversation by uncomfortable conversation.
I've got more than one girl, and not one of them needs the same thing from me. I still don't have it all figured out. Nobody does. But I fight for it every single day, because they are worth every hard, awkward, humbling minute of it.
"There are only two men who have ever shown me what unconditional love looks like. Jesus, and my dad."
Real moments from the show with my daughter. No script, no highlight reel. Just what it actually looks like to show up.
Not the business. Not the followers. Them. The way I show up now is the bar every man in their lives will be measured against. That is a weight I get to carry on purpose.
I built Raise Her Right for the dad who feels that weight too, and refuses to wing it.
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The full guide for the dad who's terrified he's going to screw it up. This isn't theory. It's what I learned raising daughters who respect me, come to me with the hard stuff, and are becoming strong women.
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